Selfish Crafting

I’ve been doing a lot of thinking of late. Big life changes do that, I’ve found. It’s part of settling in to a new situation and becoming stable again. My Dad moved in with us before Christmas, and oh boy what a difference that’s made to my life – no more worrying about if he’s eating, or safe etc. It’s a mother child relationship in reverse.

Others are exploring issues too: a recent Twitter thread has got me thinking as well. We are very lucky in the West to have spare cash that we can choose how we spend. Some have loads more, some only a little, but we have choice as to how to spend it. But I hear that some people impose their feelings on others and the ugly side of human nature rears its head. We all craft for different reasons. Some do it to make clothes, some like the slow fashion movement, others for something to do with their hands, me – I craft for a variety of reasons – it de-stresses me, I like making things and also I cannot buy things to wear that I like in the shops, so I make my own. My yarn collection, for that is what it is, a collection, is there as I bought it to make things with. There is no contract that states what I will make or when, or even if I ever will. I live in a rural area and my yarn shops are between 5 and 17 miles away so I find it helpful to keep some yarn at home. I often give away my yarn or finished objects but I don’t feel guilty for owning what I have worked hard for.

The debate has been widened though. It’s been taken to a level where the words feminism, male dominance, self-worth and assertive enter the equation. Does your partner belittle your hobby? Do you find yourself justifying your hobby? Do you get paid peanuts for commission pieces? I guess it all depends why you knit, how you value your time and skill and your own feelings of self worth. I’ve come to realise over recent years that I’ve undervalued my skills, charged less than I should have for  my yarn and knitted items and allowed others to make fun of my “granny” hobby.

Its time for change. No more will I feel guilty for things I worked hard for, or what I’ve created, and I will put the right price tag on my work. PS I will also not hoard to obscene levels of gluttony. That last statement is so subjective. What constitutes a level? Does a carrier bag full of yarn or a whole room of yarn constitute excess? It depends on how prolific a knitter you are and how old you are! What I’m trying to say, and not very well, is that we should only look at ourselves, not judge others. We don’t walk in their shoes and don’t know the details.

i knit because it keeps me calm. Long may it continue to be so.




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